Monday 27 February 2017

3 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD KISS YOUR HUSBAND IN FRONT OF YOUR KIDS (ON PURPOSE)

Whenever I see my husband, Dave, I usually greet him with a hug and a kiss.  To me, this seems quite normal, and I never thought anything about doing this in front of my children until our son, Cooper, had a playdate with a friend of his.  The kids were playing in the kitchen just as Dave came home from work. When he walked in the kitchen, he pulled me close, hugged me, and kissed me.  It was by no means a lingering, passionate embrace; but it was a warm and affectionate greeting where, yes, our lips locked.  Cooper’s friend loudly gasped and said “Eew, gross!” and looked at Cooper as if he should have the same reaction.  Coop just smiled and said, “What? They do that all the time.”   I thought the nine year-old boy was having what he thought was the “proper” response to adults kissing, but he had a hard time shaking the look of pure disgust off of his face.
 I think there are three BIG reasons to let your kiddos see you being affectionate with your spouse:

Moment of Truth with Olusegun Aderogba:Topic Sex, Marriage and Spirituality

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Sunday 12 February 2017

See how Phubbing” is ruining relationships

“Phubbing” is ruining relationships, according to a recent study.  It’s rampant, and it’s a behavior we’ve grown to accept as a society.  So, what is phubbing?
A friend of mine sent me an article on phubbing, and I read it only because I honestly had never heard the term before.  When I began reading it, I quickly realized that most of us are extremely familiar with the act of phubbing–we just didn’t know it had a name.
So what is it?

Sex and Intimacy Help…we have different sex drives!

A common issue for many couples that results in frustration and disharmony is missing the beat with your sex drive. One wants it more than the other creating a sense of rejection and loneliness every time a pass is batted away. Then you have the other person who wants it less and now feels like its a chore or marital duty.

Saturday 11 February 2017

I WAS UNFAITHFUL, BUT GOD SAVED MY MARRIAGE: ONE WOMAN’S STORY

 Growing up in childhood abuse has lasting effects on a person long into adulthood and for some, for the rest of their lives. I never knew it was abuse until I was far away from it and no longer exposed to it. My entire life, up to the point of salvation, I always looked for immediate gratification to “take me away” to find happiness in the dark world in which I was living in.

8 Must Say Phrases To Your Spouse(its Magical)

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Our words have power and they can either hurt or heal.  While they can lift and build people up they can also tear them down reeking destruction.



The reality is, when it comes to what you say, people don’t forget, especially the person you’re married to. And some people will remind you of what you said long after the words fall from your lips. While words like NEVER, ALWAYS, and STUPID are not ok…ever, these phrases below will breathe life into your relationship the minute you say them.

Friday 10 February 2017

TRUTH ABOUT AMBITOUS WOMAN: Why Men are Afraid of Them

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1. We Are Not Your Mothers

It is not our job to take care of grown men. Set your own appointments, keep an eye on your own credit rating, take care of your own health, and well-being. If we’re working on uplifting our own damn selves and turn around to find that we are also responsible for making sure you are on point — things won’t go far. Know that basic efforts get no applause. You will not be handed a cookie for doing what you should already be doing. We will not praise you for having a job, a car, an education, common decency.
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Why Are You Together?

“Did God put you together?” When I ask that question of a married couple, they almost always say yes. Then I ask “Why did He put you together?”
I get blank stares.
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The Moment of Truth with Evangelist Favour Amadi

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Thursday 9 February 2017

5 Lessons from Positive People That Will Make You More Attractive

We all want to be admired, listened to, and respected. What is it that some people do that gets people to pay attention and follow their lead? Here are some things I’ve noticed that might be worth a try:

6 Reasons NOT to Marry a Man

Everyday I hear from wives reaching out for marital advice. Very often, they’ll write me online and tell me all the things their husband is doing wrong. For the most part, these are things he has ALWAYS been doing wrong (even back before they were married), but she thought she could change him (which never works out well). There are certain things a man does during the dating phase of the relationship that show either he’s not ready for marriage or he’s not worthy of marriage.